Ack! Who hijacked my church???
Hello there! I am a member of [church name and location removed to protect my congregation from being associated with me ;o)] (not far from St. Louis, MO). I am writing you in regard to the January 24th article you wrote for ucc.org, in which you took Dr. James Dobson to task over the recent Spongebob Squarepants controversy.
I'm afraid I must take issue with your characterization of Dr. Dobson's original statements. In your article, you state "...James C. Dobson, founder of Focus on the Family, [accused] that the popular SpongeBob and other well-known cartoon characters are crossing 'a moral line' by stressing tolerance in a national We Are Family Foundation-sponsored video that will be distributed to U.S. schools on March 11, 2005." On the contrary, he wasn't "accusing" any of the fictional characters in the video of anything (it would be ridiculous to accuse a cartoon character of wrongdoing), nor was he taking issue with "stressing tolerance" per se.
Rather, as Dobson later clarified, "...while the video is harmless on its own, I believe the agenda behind it is sinister. My brief comments at the FRC gathering were intended to express concern not about SpongeBob or Big Bird or any of their other cartoon friends, but about the way in which those childhood symbols are apparently being hijacked to promote an agenda that involves teaching homosexual propaganda to children."
In other words, he wasn't taking issue with Spongebob, or with the video's message of tolerance, but instead he was taking issue with the cartoon characters and the benign message of tolerance being used to legitemize the We Are Family Foundation itself, and the other, less-benign messages it has promoted. As Dobson wrote, "I want to be clear: the We Are Family Foundation — the organization that sponsored the video featuring SpongeBob and the other characters was, until this flap occurred, making available a variety of explicitly pro-homosexual materials on its Web site. It has since endeavored to hide that fact (more on this later), but my concerns are as legitimate today as they were when I first expressed them in January."
I recognize that there is a tension between loving the sinner and hating his sin, and accepting a person and condoning his actions. Further, it is difficult to work out the balance between "accepting a person as they are" and "believers conforming to the image of Christ". I fully believe that it is important to love people unconditionally, and to accept all who seek Christ into our church unreservedly. Further, I would say that Doctor Dobson agrees with me: "Let me say it again for emphasis: Every individual is entitled to respect and human dignity, including those with whom we disagree strongly. The problem is not with acceptance or kindness, certainly. But kids should not be taught that homosexuality is just another "lifestyle," or that it is morally equivalent to heterosexuality. Scripture teaches that all overt sexual activity outside the bonds of marriage is sinful and harmful. Children should not be taught otherwise by their teachers, and certainly not if their parents are unaware of the instruction."
Homosexuality is not a worse sin than any others in the eyes of God, and certainly isn't an "unforgivable sin". That being said, we must not, in the name of tolerating the individual, pretend that sin isn't sin. After all, we don't say "you can be in Christ and continue unrepentently lying, or coveting, or stealing, or committing adultery". We aren't doing our Christian friends coming from a homosexual lifestyle any favors by pretending that calling homosexuality a sin is "a Leviticus thing". And we certainly aren't doing our Church any favors by jumping on the bandwagon of lambasting a fellow Christian who spoke out from concern for our nation's children, especially when in doing so we seem to be attempting to promote our own agenda (e.g. statements like "Meanwhile, the UCC's recently released 30-second paid television commercial - produced to underscore the denomination's belief that Jesus didn't turn anyone away - has been rejected by two major television networks for being 'too controversial.'"). That ends up just sounding like sour grapes and inter-denominational sniping, which undercuts our message of tolerance and diversity of ideas, doesn't it?
In closing, I would like to say that your article disappointed me. Not only did you seem to be jumping on the dogpile as a means of tooting our UCC horn, but I didn't believe it was up to professional standards. The article was high on innuendo, and low on fact-checking and point-supporting (Dr. Dobson's original statements and his rebuttals to the press have been readily available on the Web all week long). I don't say these things out of anger or mean-spiritedness, but rather in a spirit of constructive criticism. You seem to have a God-given talent for writing. My only wish is that you would hone that gift, and use it in the spirit of truth.
Thank you so much for your time!
p.s. I forgot to ask: in your article, you state that Dobson espouses "often-outrageous viewpoints". Could you please delineate some of his viewpoints that you find particularly outrageous? I'm curious to see which ones bothered you the most. After all, Jesus said a lot of things whch people in the 1st Century found (and for that matter, find today) "outrageous". Being "outrageous" does not immediately disqualify a statement from being true, is all I'm saying. :o)
p.p.s. All quotes from Dr. Dobson were taken from this site: http://www.family.org/docstudy/newsletters/a0035339.cfm"

